Why Bmen 2026?
- Wesley Henderson
- Jun 24
- 4 min read

Why BMEN?
BMEN was created with one goal in mind: to bring men together.
In 2018, I launched the first BMEN experience in Fort Lauderdale, Florida, at a beautiful beachside resort. What started as an idea quickly became something bigger than I imagined. We sold out the resort, filled the space with great energy, and created a weekend where men could relax, connect, laugh, party, build friendships, and simply enjoy being around one another.
That first BMEN experience showed me something important. There was a real need for spaces where men, especially Black gay men and men in our community, could come together in a way that felt intentional, welcoming, fun, and meaningful.
BMEN was never created to be just another party. It was created to be an experience.
The Beginning: Fort Lauderdale 2018
The first BMEN event took place at a resort on the beach in Fort Lauderdale. The idea was simple: create a getaway where men could come together, enjoy themselves, and feel comfortable being who they are.
That weekend became special because of the people. Men came from different cities, different backgrounds, and different walks of life, but the energy was the same. Everyone wanted to connect, have fun, and be part of something that felt different.
Selling out that resort proved that BMEN had a purpose. It showed that when you create the right environment, people will show up. Not just for the music or the parties, but for the fellowship, the brotherhood, the conversations, and the memories.
Then Life Changed
After 2018, I always knew BMEN would return. I wanted to bring it back bigger, better, and more elevated. But like many things, life shifted. The pandemic changed the world, travel paused, and the original resort where BMEN started was eventually sold.
For a while, the return of BMEN was delayed, but the vision never left me.
I knew BMEN still had a place. I knew the community still needed moments like this. I knew that men still wanted to travel, connect, celebrate, and experience something curated with them in mind.
So instead of bringing BMEN back the same way, I decided to bring it back on a bigger stage.
From the Beach to the Ocean
Now, BMEN returns in August 2026 aboard Virgin Voyages.
This next chapter is more than a comeback. It is an evolution.
What started as a sold-out resort experience in Fort Lauderdale has now grown into a luxury cruise experience at sea. BMEN on Virgin 2026 gives us the opportunity to take everything that made the first experience special and expand it into something even more unforgettable.
We are talking about themed parties, beach events, group experiences, luxury travel, dinners, fellowship, music, laughter, and memories across multiple destinations. From Miami to Grand Turk to Bimini, BMEN is stepping into a new era.
Why BMEN Still Matters
BMEN matters because connection matters.
So many people travel, party, and socialize, but not everyone feels seen. Not everyone feels included. Not everyone walks into a space and feels like it was created with them in mind.
BMEN was created to be that space.
It is for men who want to enjoy themselves without judgment. It is for men who value good energy, respect, brotherhood, confidence, and connection. It is for men who want more than a regular vacation. It is for men who want to be part of a community experience.
BMEN is about fellowship. It is about friendship. It is about showing up as yourself and being surrounded by people who are also ready to enjoy life.
This Is Not Just a Cruise
BMEN on Virgin 2026 is not just about getting on a ship. It is about being part of something intentional.
Virgin Voyages gives us a modern, sexy, adults-only cruise experience, but BMEN adds the community. BMEN adds the curated events, the themed nights, the private moments, the beach takeovers, the birthday celebration, and the energy that turns a vacation into a memory.
This experience is designed for men who want to travel well, meet new people, reconnect with familiar faces, and enjoy a luxury group experience that feels exciting, elevated, and welcoming.
The Evolution of BMEN
From a beachside resort in Fort Lauderdale in 2018 to Virgin Voyages in August 2026, the mission has remained the same: bring men together.
The location has changed. The experience has grown. The vision has expanded. But the heart of BMEN is still the same.
BMEN is about creating space.
Space to connect.Space to celebrate.Space to be seen.Space to build memories.Space to experience joy.
That is why BMEN exists.
The Next Chapter
BMEN on Virgin 2026 is the next chapter of something that started years ago with a simple idea and a sold-out resort.
Now, we are taking that same energy to the ocean.
Whether you were part of the first BMEN experience in 2018 or this will be your first time joining us, you are part of the story. You are part of the movement. You are part of what makes BMEN special.
This is more than a trip.
This is BMEN.
And this is only the beginning.
For more details, passes, and booking information, visit WesandFriends.com.



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