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"Wes and Friends"
"Welcome to Wes and Friends, your ultimate travel hub! Our goal is to bring you unforgettable experiences, whether you're setting sail on the open ocean with top cruise lines or enjoying a luxury escape at the finest all-inclusive resorts. Let us take the stress out of your travel planning and help you book your next adventure, making every trip something to remember!"
COME ABOARD THE ADULT CRUISE SHIP!
2025
Virgin Voyages offers an unforgettable cruise experience like no other, designed for those who crave luxury, adventure, and a bit of rebellion at sea. With their adults-only policy, Virgin Voyages creates a vibrant and sophisticated atmosphere, perfect for those who want to enjoy life’s pleasures without the distractions of children onboard.
From cutting-edge dining options crafted by world-renowned chefs to unique onboard experiences like their rooftop "Rebel Lounge" and spa retreats, Virgin Voyages caters to every desire. Whether you're lounging by the pool, indulging in gourmet meals, or exploring exotic destinations, every moment is about relaxation, excitement, and luxury.
With sleek, modern ships and impeccable service, Virgin Voyages is the ultimate escape for those looking for a stylish and adventurous cruise experience. Book now to set sail into a world of unmatched entertainment, tailored luxury, and a cruise experience that’s anything but ordinary. 🌊✨ #VirginVoyages #RebelAtSea #LuxuryCruising #AdultOnlyCruise #SetSailInStyle
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ABOUT BMEN
"BMEN" is back by popular demand for its second edition, and this time, we're taking it to the ocean! Join me aboard the stunning, adults-only, modern, and sexy Virgin Voyages cruise ship for an unforgettable experience.
The original BMEN event took place in 2018 at The Grand Resort and Spa, and while I’ve been planning a return trip, the pandemic threw a wrench in those plans. On top of that, the original owner of The Grand Resort and Spa sold the property. Fast forward to now, and I’m a travel agent with access to incredible destinations—and what better way to relaunch BMEN than on the ocean, my ultimate favorite travel experience?
BMEN is all about bringing men together in fellowship and fun, creating a space for those who embrace masculinity to bond and celebrate. While the event is primarily for men, we know the ladies love to have fun too, so they’re absolutely welcome to join in on the party. Get ready for "BMEN" Part 2—it’s going to be a blast!
Let's take the ocean!
QUESTIONS ABOUT BMEN?
August 8th - 13th 2026
BMEN on Virgin Voyages 26: FAQs
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Is this a sex trip?
No, Virgin Voyages is a luxury, adults-only cruise for all genders. "Adults-only" means no kids, but you can enjoy intimacy in your booked room. Public spaces, however, are for fun and relaxation—not for sexual activities. -
Who is invited to BMEN?
Everyone is welcome, but our focus is on men who embrace and celebrate their masculinity. Define that however you see fit. We’re creating a space for connection, fun, and fellowship. -
Why a cruise, and why Virgin?
A cruise is like a luxury hotel on water, but with some incredible perks: all food, gratuities, Wi-Fi, workout classes, and various onboard activities are included. Virgin Voyages stands out as the only truly adults-only cruise line worth sailing, ensuring a vibrant, high-energy experience without distractions. -
What is the price?
The price varies based on the room you choose. A 20% deposit secures your booking, and you’ll have 120 days before departure to pay in full. -
When should I book?
It’s best to book ASAP. Not only does this give you more time to pay off your cruise, but booking early means you’ll get the lowest rates. Wait until January 2026, and rooms may be sold out or more expensive. Secure your spot now to get the best price! -
What’s the special occasion?
It’s Wesley's birthday, and you know he knows how to throw a party! Plus, it’s the perfect time to bring BMEN back for round two. -
Can I book directly through Virgin?
Yes, booking through my link is still booking directly with Virgin. The difference is that when you book through my link, BMEN gets credit, which means more exclusive perks and activities for the group. The more we book together, the more we can do on board. So, use my link to make your reservation, and you’ll see my name at the top of the Virgin Voyages website. When you book, I’ll be notified and can add you to the BMEN group! -
Do I need a passport?
While you don’t need a passport for this voyage on Resilient Lady, it does make everything easier. If you don’t have a passport, a Real ID and birth certificate will suffice for this trip. However, you will need a passport for the BMEN trip in the Dominican Republic.
About
Max Konnor
We’re thrilled to announce that Max Konnor will be joining us as a special guest on BMEN 2026! 🎉
Max is a multi-award-winning adult film star, director, and entrepreneur who has redefined the industry with his powerful performances and unwavering authenticity. Born in Albany, Georgia, Max began his career in adult entertainment under the name Isaiah Foxx in 2009. After a brief hiatus, he returned in 2017 as Max Konnor and quickly became one of the most celebrated Black gay performers in the world. His accolades include multiple GayVN Awards, XBIZ Gay Performer of the Year, and recognition as Cam4’s first male ambassador.
Beyond his on-screen success, Max is a trailblazer off-camera. He founded Haus of Konnor, a talent agency dedicated to elevating performers of color, and starred in the Off-Broadway musical Waiting in the Wings: The Musical. He also appears in the reality series X-Rated: NYC on OutTV, offering an inside look into the lives of LGBTQ+ adult entertainers.
Max’s presence at BMEN 2026 promises to bring an extra layer of excitement and star power to our already incredible lineup. Don’t miss the chance to meet this groundbreaking performer and enjoy an unforgettable experience together.
SPECIAL GUEST
We are thrilled to announce that the multifaceted and charismatic Khi Lavene will be joining us as a special guest on our upcoming BMen trip! 🌟
Khi is a dynamic personality known for his engaging presence in the adult entertainment industry and his candid discussions on relationships, love, and personal growth. He has been featured in various interviews, including his appearance on The Whole Truth with Wes, where he delved into topics like working safely in the industry, navigating complex relationships, and raising a daughter.
Known for his authenticity, his ability to PARTY, and willingness to share his story, Khi brings a wealth of experience and insight that will undoubtedly enrich our trip.
Stay tuned for more updates as we prepare for an unforgettable experience with Khi Lavene! 🌍✨
SPECIAL GUEST
DAVID
We are thrilled to announce that actor and model David Shirley will be joining us as a special guest on BMEN 2026! Known for his captivating performances and magnetic presence, David has graced both the stage and screen, leaving a lasting impression on audiences. Beyond his acting career, he is a dynamic personality in the LGBTQ+ community, celebrated for his appearances on Culture Clubb, where he engages in bold conversations and unfiltered truths alongside other influential voices. David's commitment to authenticity and his passion for meaningful dialogue make him a standout addition to our lineup. His participation in BMEN 2026 promises to elevate the experience, offering attendees the opportunity to connect with a multifaceted artist and advocate. Don't miss the chance to meet David and be part of this unforgettable journey!
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"Hey, I'm Wesley—most people call me Wes! I’m all about travel, and if I’m not cruising the open seas, you’ll find me at a luxury, adults-only, all-inclusive resort. I’m a ball of fun, and every trip I take is filled with new connections and unforgettable memories with fellow travelers. I created this space to bring all of us together—to connect, share, and experience the amazing adventures I go on. So, come book your next getaway with me, and let's make some incredible memories together!"
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